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Trapped in Comfort?

· Personal Development,Relationship,Coaching,Dating tips,Love

Are you trapped in Comfort?

Before you answer, really think about it.


What would your answer be?


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Today's post has come off the back off feedback forms after delivering the Masterclass.


The common theme........."Having attended the Masterclass I am now feeling more confident and open to new possibilities"

“Try a thing you haven’t done three times. Once, to get over the fear of doing it. Twice, to learn how to do it. And a third time to figure out whether you like it or not.” Virgil Thomson

One thing we all have in common is that we all experience fear.

Now I am not talking about intuitive fears designed to keep us safe, such as being afraid of a bear in the wild—but instead, the fear of something new, of change, of vulnerability, of the unknown.

While experiencing fear is simply part of the human condition, we must decide if we will face our fears—or let our fears place limitations on our lives.

So yes, we all have fears—but it is how we respond to them that makes all the difference!

When Did We Lose Our Childlike Fearlessness?

We can all learn from children because they are fearless. They don’t waste their time worrying about how things could go wrong, or how hard it will be to learn something new—they go all in with everything they have.

Consider how many times children fall before they learn to walk—fearless!

Consider how freely children share their love, hugs and kisses—fearless!

Consider how easily children make new friends. They walk right up to someone new, and immediately start to play—fearless!

Consider how so much of what children learn and see in their first 5 years of life is brand new, yet they go into each new experience open and ready to give it a try—fearless!

Are You Trapped In Comfort?

If you really take a close look at how the things you fear most are affecting your day-to-day life, you may be surprised to learn that you would rather be unhappy and unfulfilled in the comfort of what you know, rather than to risk the potential for happiness and greatness that can be achieved by facing your fears.

But do you really want to spend the rest of your life trapped in the comfort

of what you already know?

Or do you want to be courageous and do something different?

Something that has the potential to get you the result you are looking for?

Instead of spending your time day dreaming about the life, the love, the success and the happiness you desire as though they are only a dream—why not devise a plan to face your fears and change your life?

What Does It Mean To Be Alive?

Have you ever considered what it means to be alive? Yes, you are breathing, so you are alive—right?

But breathing does not go hand-in-hand with taking action.

Or with living your life to the fullest.

Or with living and growing.

According to, “alive” is defined as:

  • having life; living existing; not dead or lifeless
  • having the quality of life; vivid; vibrant If fear is preventing you from taking action, is draining your energy, or is keeping you from achieving your heart’s deepest desires—then I am asking you to challenge yourself to face your fears!

No, It’s Not Easy—But You Are Worth It!

There is a popular saying, “get comfortable being uncomfortable.” While facing your fears will certainly be uncomfortable, the temporary lack of comfort is the only thing that will bring you to what you truly desire.

In fact, as “comfortable” as you may think you are in not facing your fears—if you are honest with yourself, you will find that the worry and unsettling feeling of being unfulfilled isn’t nearly as comfortable as you would like to believe.

Familiar maybe, but not comfortable.

Oh, The Possibilities

“What if I Fall? Oh, but my darling what if you fly?” Erin Hanson​

While you may never lose your fear of the unknown, you can choose to use your fear as a catalyst for change—instead of as a roadblock to the life you desire.

Together we can work to devise a plan to reinvest the time you currently waste on fear, worry, and day dreaming—in taking the first steps towards facing your fears.

If you are ready to let love and life in, then it is time to take the challenge to face your fears!

Are you ready to take the challenge? I am here to help you if you are.

It takes one brave step, I can help with the rest.

Your Coach


Join me for the Let Your Self Grow Workshop and master the skills to break free.


Saturday 1st September 2018

Here is what someone said about attending the workshop:

"Amazing workshop. It's one of the best I've been on! Good balance of theory with practical, plus the last exercise was so powerful. Excited to have myself sabotaging voice become my ally instead!"

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