When, If, How

“Wajeeha I am afraid it will not happen for me and that I am running out of time to have children”


That’s what she said to me before we started working together. She recently had her Nikah.

The thing I love about Transformative Coaching is you watch other people’s impossible turn into possible and the knock on effect and “ripple” then become infectious.

She used all the why nots to come to the conclusion. I am divorced and 37 and I just don’t seem to meet the “right” guy.

So, you see what you think is your impossible can turn into your possible.

I have been thinking about how I can make a difference in your life, how I can help you when it comes to achieving your goal, to marry and marry well.

I know you have been asking when will it all fall in to place, or will it indeed ever happen, or you have tried and given up time and time again. It's easy to become complacent with our lives, and believe that the Qadr (decree) of Allah will drive our affairs for us.
It is great for us to truly be content with Allah’s will however we have to take that first step. There are many examples that teach us this.
We all know the story of Hajar (radi Allahu anha).
She was in the middle of nowhere, she did not just sit there, yes, she had Tawwakul (trust in Allah subhanahu wata’aala).

BUT she took action too, and she did not give up at the first hurdle. She did not only try once, she tried seven times before Jibreel (alayhi salaam) was sent to help her. If you know the story you will know that those seven times where no easy try's, she ran up and down 2 mountains in the heat without a drop of water.

I recently heard Mufti Menk speak and he gave the following analogy:
When we want to go somewhere, we get in our cars and we drive there (or use other means of transport).
We don’t get in the car and start making du’a to Allah begging him to take us there.
We may make du’a for a successful journey and for him to protect us whilst we’re driving.
But we’re the ones driving.
The point I am trying to make is that you have to take action over and over again whilst having Tawwakul.
With this in mind, I want to invite you to join the Action Collective.
A 6 weeks group mentoring programme to help you with your goal. An friendly conversation space, focused on goal setting, deepening awareness around key issues, taking action, and accountability. (You can opt for one to one mentoring or group mentoring)
I want to help you take that action, to stay accountable and not give up!
If you have tried and tried and not got the result you're looking for when it comes to finding your life partner or any other goal, then I would like to invite you to an experience using a blend of spiritual and psychological approaches that is going to help get you there.

The Action Collective will start in August the first meeting will be on Friday 2nd August.

If you would like to join or you think you may know someone who can benefit from this group send me an e-mail.

There is a short questionnaire and if you qualify you will be invited to join the group. Application's close on Friday 26th July.

Success in love is like success in any other area of your life. It takes commitment, intention, investment, work, and getting out of your way.

It’s really scary to leave your comfort zone and recognise
that you want to make changes in your life, but it doesn’t mean that you aren’t worth it.

I’m going to take away you're overwhelme and frustration and replace it with confidence and an action plan.
 I want to make the process of reaching your goals, and if it’s in love, I want to help you in finding, connecting and keeping the one, easier than it has ever been. 
I’ll be your mentor. I’ll help you overcome the obstacles that are holding you back from your goals.
I know it’s scary to invest in yourself because you can’t guarantee that this will work better than all the other things you’ve ever tried, so you’ll just have to trust me on this one.

If you are ready to push your limits, get out of your comfort zone, get to YOUR end result MARRY & MARRY WELL, then click APPLY Today. There will be 2 groups one for women and one for men.


When you join the action collective you will join other like-minded people and given all the tools to succeed. Plus you get me by your side the entire time!


And, I am going to make the process fun, energizing and inspiring!

Want to find out more e-mail me.

I look forward to hearing from you.
Speak soon
ps if you know someone who will benefit, forward this post or tell them about it. Together let's make it happen!

Did you Know:

Research has shown that being accountable and supported increases your chances of success by 40%-95%.

The American Society of Training and Development (ASTD) did a study on accountability and discovered:
You are more likely to achieve your goal if:

You have an idea or a goal: 10%
You consciously decide you will do it: 25%
You decide when you will do it: 40%
You plan how you will do it: 50%
You commit to someone you will do it: 65%
You have a specific accountability appointment with a person you’ve committed to: 95%

To set yourself up for success, make sure your goals are SHARED and SUPPORTED.

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